Capturing the Rainbow

 The work will wait while you show your child the rainbow…

But the rainbow won’t wait while you do the work.

-Erik Erikson

Just a sec… no, I’m not tearing up, I just have something in both eyes…

That quote gets me every time!

I have a major tendency of going overboard for special occasions… birthdays, anniversaries, vacations, holidays… I have that in common with Clark Griswold I guess…

I think there is something great about setting aside that time as different than the rest of life. Life kind of stinks sometimes, right? The world is chaotic, even scary at times, and in general ranges from over-scheduled chaos to the hum drum boringness of making food (it’s constant right? Or is that just my house?), folding laundry, and cleaning up the latest milk spill on the floor. So, when something is special, I want it to feel totally set apart from all of that… not ordinary, or every day, but fun, pretty, exciting, sometimes sparkly, and different. This isn’t to say that this is normal or necessary (my husband can attest to this), but just to give a glimpse into some of what drives me.

I realized a couple of years ago that I didn’t just want special occasions to be set apart from daily life, but I wanted to have chances every day that were set apart and meaningful. I was tired of putting my kids to bed feeling like I hadn’t done anything with them, rather we had just kind of gone through the routine of the day, coexisting rather than interacting.

…I have a point, and it does relate to this blog…

So, I started to fashion my schedule around my kids as my first priority and using these activities as a set way to know what I was going to do with them. Instead of working my kids in around everything else, I started trying to work in everything else around my kids. Now obviously it doesn’t take a plan, or special materials to connect with our kids or to have them learn. What this plan did for me was take away the constant “what should we do today?” It was just ready to go and I could focus on our time playing together.

And that’s what I want to share here in this blog “space”… my first goal is getting moms (or dads, grandparents, aunts, uncles, babysitters) playing together with kids in a developmentally appropriate way. To take out the guesswork and have little to no prep, in order to set aside time each day to do something together with our kids. Not to mention, they are going to be learning, because toddlers and preschoolers are constantly learning!

Now, as an aside… the takeaway here is not perfection in parenting or teaching children. It’s about being real too. There are still busy days that we don’t get activities done. So, that’s why I wrote 25 Super Duper Fun Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers. Check that out to learn more about how these little guys learn… I think it will help take a lot of pressure off of your daily life! 

What’s in store for the next year you ask?

Well, I’m glad you asked.

The activity plans will continue to post with fun, developmentally appropriate activities and my tips and ideas to keep them fun and interesting.

My goal for the next year is to talk about research as it applies to children, development, families, relationships, discipline, education, and on and on… tons of topics that I think anyone with kids will want to hear. When I was in grad school I always felt like research information that would benefit families got stuck in something of a research cloud. It’s been my goal ever since then to get that information out to people that it matters!

So, that’s a little bit about where I’ve been and where I’m headed. It doesn’t feel possible that a year has gone by, but I’m extremely happy to have that milestone under my belt. If you want more information about me or my blog check out these pages:

Welcome to Real. Meaningful. Family.

Dr. Emily’s Story

Why Real. Meaningful. Family?

And of course…

Happy Playing!

There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

-C.S. Lewis



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